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Now we can get into the really fun stuff... positions, positions, positions. Your positions should only be limited by your physical ability to get in and out of them and by what feels comfortable. Some positions will work wonderfully for some and not for others. It’s up to you to determine which ones work best. I will give you a few suggestions to start with.
The first one and probably the most important one in my mind is with the woman on top facing toward the man. I say this because if it’s your first time experiencing anal sex, this position will allow you to have control of the insertion of his penis into your ass. This was what I used for my first anal experience and I felt comfortable because I had the control over how far his penis was going or not going to penetrate me. I could stop when I felt I needed time to adjust to the sensation and then continue when I felt ready to. This is still my all time favorite position.
Ladies, all you need to do is to straddle your partner facing toward him. Make sure that you've got lots of lubricant applied to his penis and to your ass. You want to be able to have his penis slide in smoothly. Grasp his penis firmly and position the head at the opening of your anus. Hold it in place while you gently push your ass down against it. It will move fairly smoothly for the first little bit and then you are going to encounter some resistance, this is where the muscular ring is. To get past this point, you really need to relax and push down gently until you feel it pop past the muscle. Now, you might want to take a minute here to absorb how it feels so far. You may feel like you’re going to shit yourself. This is a normal feeling and you don’t actually shit yourself.
One of my readers had suggested that breathing plays a very big role in successful anal intercourse. It has been their experience that a woman will have a much easier time of it if she controls her breathing. If the woman takes a deep breath and exhales slowly during the initial penetration it makes the act more pleasurable for both partners.
Once you’ve adjusted, try pressing down further on his penis, taking more inside your ass. This is a good time for your partner to play with your breasts, stroke and play with your pussy or whatever else works for turning you on. The more sexually excited you are the less attention you are going to pay to any discomfort you might feel. Then you can start moving up and down on his penis, letting it slide in and out of your ass. You are in complete control and can wiggle side to side, move up and down as slow or as fast as you’d like. You can also control the depth and force of penetration.
When you’re comfortable with this, you may allow your partner to become more of a participant instead of having him remain passive. It’s all up to you and ladies I don’t think that he’s going to argue too much, especially if this is something that he’s been wanting to do and is finally getting the opportunity.
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